{"id":72917,"date":"2023-03-17T08:38:54","date_gmt":"2023-03-17T15:38:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parentguidance.academy\/?p=72917"},"modified":"2023-03-27T09:59:42","modified_gmt":"2023-03-27T16:59:42","slug":"my-13-year-old-daughter-has-undergone-a-worrying-change-over-the-past-year-she-used-to-be-very-helpful-around-the-house-without-being-told-she-loved-piano-and-would-push-herself-to-do-well-even-com","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parentguidance.academy\/es\/my-13-year-old-daughter-has-undergone-a-worrying-change-over-the-past-year-she-used-to-be-very-helpful-around-the-house-without-being-told-she-loved-piano-and-would-push-herself-to-do-well-even-com\/","title":{"rendered":"My 13-year-old daughter has disengaged this past year. She no longer enjoys doing the things she use to do. 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The first is she's at a key developmental point in that she's 13 and entering adolescence. This is a time when hormonal surges create a lot of moodiness in children that is really normal and it's difficult for them and for us to know how to weather those ups and downs of adolescence, but the hormonal shifts of puberty are really important to keep in mind.<\/p>\n<p>However, what you're describing is seems to be much more pervasive. So, you are actually describing the symptoms of clinical depression. You're seeing a long-term loss of interest in things that used to be pleasurable to her, isolation and withdrawal from friendships and from family, numbing behavior, like just watching TV and not having motivation. These are all actually symptoms of underlying depression.<\/p>\n<p>So, parent you are doing a beautiful job of holding that awareness and what you want to do, rather than attending to the symptoms, is look at the underlying issue which sounds like it's depression. 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